By Ray Williams June 18, 2021 Have you ever had this conversation with yourself, or heard someone else talk this way: “I’ll never get that promotion/job.” “I screwed up again.” “My work wasn’t good enough.” “ Ishould/shouldn’t have…”(fill in the blanks). These are...
By Ray Williams October 21, 2020 “I’ll never get that promotion/job. I screwed up again. I should/shouldn’t have…(fill in the blanks). We frequently hear people verbalize these types of self-critiques to their friends, families and even strangers online. Or you...
Why Perfectionism is So Damaging and What to Do About It By Ray Williams As a culture, we tend to reward perfectionists for their insistence on setting high standards and relentless drive to meet those standards. And perfectionists frequently arehigh achievers...